The Pastor Who Proposed Fingering Me 2

Yes oh! Happy Sunday. Once again its your Judith reporting life from the XYZ Church of the Lord.
Last week we ended the service with the prophet who fled at the mention of cane. This Sunday we delve right into the crux of the matter then round up with how I left that assembly.


One faithful weekend Uncle Ex and I learnt that the District Overseer of our church was visiting. He said to me, let’s go see that Man of God to pray for us concerning our desire to have children (I had 4 miscarriages within our marriage and 4 more after we separated).


We went to the Parsonage and asked to see the visiting head of district. We were ushered into an office with a broad conference table and few chairs. We had a chat with the Pastor. We spoke about our child bearing challenge. He gave us words of encouragement, shared experiences with us and supported us with Bible scriptures.


Surprisingly, he brought out a bottle of Olive Oil, told me to take off my panties and lie on the conference table. I was putting on a dress and not a trouser so I may or may not have taken off my pants, the details are vague right now but I did lie on that table. Subsequently he told me to spread my legs apart as he dips his hand into the bowl of olive oil to administer it on my vagina.


I wasn’t comfortable with this procedure so I refuse and he says….. “if you are not okay with me doing it, I will give the oil to your husband he will administer it and say the prayer on you when you get home”.

Well that was the option we took and till Uncle Ex and I separated, he kept on telling me how arrogant and proud I was while comparing the scenario to that of a doctor doing a routine check on me, saying that if I could allow doctors do more depraving things to me why couldn’t I be humble for a Man of God to pray for me as he was led by the Spirit?


Each story about XYZ Church of God I have shared happened in different branches of the church. About a year after the Fingering episode, we had relocated to a different town and began a new branch of same said church.

It was Sunday again, we dressed smartly to church. I should also mention that there is a gender division in sit arrangements at XYZ Church nationwide, so Uncle Ex and I sat separately that day. As the service progressed, a woman stood up, pulled up Uncle Ex(I do remember his expression now) and gives him a lot of revelations(prophecy as we know it) which I don’t recall now. She then asks him to call up his wife, I was called up and she said to me, “in a short while you will suffer a loss, he won’t stand by you but it will be better for him if he did”.

A few months later, Uncle Ex absconds then as I was trying to get to understand that loss, my mum passed on into glory. If that wasn’t a prophecy confirmed, I wonder what is!

As we fellowship today, Sunday, new month etc, remember salvation comes first and all other things will follow.

Have you followed my @surrogatetwins journey yet?

Judith.
Email: strongnigerianwoman@gmail.com
Facebook handle:@mysurrogatetwins, @astrongnigerianwoman
Twitter:@mysurrogatetwin

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